“I Lost My Family”: Daddie Marto Finally Speaks Out Amid Divorce Allegations

Nairobi, August 5, 2025 — Celebrated Kenyan actor Martin Githinji, popularly known as Daddie Marto, has finally broken his silence on the explosive divorce allegations made by his wife and fellow actor Koku Lwanga. In an emotional two-page public statement released on August 5, Marto acknowledged the pain of losing his family, denied key accusations, and addressed the road ahead for him and his children.

The couple, known for their charismatic presence both on-screen and online, had long projected an image of a stable, loving family. However, that image shattered in mid-June 2025 when Koku publicly announced their separation, accompanied by shocking claims of infidelity, emotional and physical abuse, and financial abandonment

The Beginning of the Breakdown

According to Marto’s statement, the couple separated in December 2024, with Marto officially moving out by April 2025. He revealed that they had planned to issue a joint statement in May to inform the public respectfully and jointly about the split. However, Koku’s solo announcement in June came as a surprise, sparking a storm of speculation and backlash online.

In her Instagram revelation, Koku accused Marto of serial cheating, neglecting his duties as a husband and father, and emotionally abandoning her during critical moments of their marriage. She claimed to have suffered postpartum depression, loneliness, and even suicidal thoughts during the relationship. She also alleged that she had to cover rent and take on other household expenses, further compounding her mental distres

In his August 5 response titled “My Truth,” Marto painted a different picture. He admitted that the marriage had failed and that he had “lost his family,” but denied the narrative presented to the public by his ex-partner. According to him, his silence over the past few months was meant to protect their children and give room for healing. However, the pressure of public scrutiny and the ongoing damage to his name and reputation forced him to speak.

Key Points from Marto’s Statement:

• The Separation Timeline: The relationship began unraveling in 2024, and by April 2025, Marto had moved out. He says their planned public statement never materialized after Koku went public with the allegations.
• The Confrontation Incident: Marto addressed a specific incident captured on video, which showed him in an apparent physical altercation. He claimed the video was taken out of context and stated that he was physically confronted and injured (suffering an eye injury) before walking away. He added that the matter is now under police investigation.
• Financial Support: Contrary to claims that Koku paid the rent and carried the household burden alone, Marto stated that he continued to pay more than half the rent, in addition to school fees, medical bills, and other essentials. He claimed to have documentation to support these payments.
• Legal Action: Marto announced that his legal team has taken action to protect his reputation, adding, “Facts aren’t decided by volume. Let the courts decide.”

A Battle of Narratives

The split between Daddie Marto and Koku Lwanga has gripped the public’s attention due to their high-profile status and the serious nature of the accusations. Koku’s emotional appeal resonated with many, especially women, who saw her as a symbol of strength for walking away from what she described as a toxic relationship. However, Marto’s new statement has introduced complexity to the narrative, revealing the pain he has carried privately and asserting his innocence in some of the most damaging claims.

He emphasized that while he has made mistakes, he will not carry blame for what isn’t his, and that doing so would amount to “self-erasure.” His focus now, he said, is on healing, protecting his children, and restoring his professional life.